Thanks, Pricess Kali, for comfirming that it's dilfciuft for some Dommes. I had one tell me Well, I wouldn't even consider that to be a bdsm activity. Don't know why not the nuns did it regularly, and having my best friend's mouth washed out every couple of weeks during the school year (2nd grade) started me on a journey of kinky questions and possibilities. I like getting paddled, and undressing in front of my Domme, and maybe a few other tortures, but if she doesn't want to or can't wash my mouth out with soap then the possibility of a session becomes remote.John